Love???

"Love is the silent language of the heart."
Love....whats love???
So often we say that we love without even knowing whether its an infatuation or a feeling raised due to loneliness. The strange matter of fact is that as most teens think that love is a feeling that u get in your heart when u see a girl and fall for her beauty, its not true. that feeling is not love, but lust. people rarely look on the inner soul first, and rarely do they realize that if love is skin deep it aint gonna last. love isnt a passing feeling, its a bond, it take a lot of time to form it, and it is so strong that when it finally develops as love, its no longer a feeling, it becomes an emotion, an emotion so attached to the heart that even when the heart stops beating and even when thers no life left in the body, the souls are still in love, it may sound a bit abstract and poetic but its true,
it only hurts when theres immature love and theres a breakup following it. it takes a lot of effort and courage to come out of it, i have been through it, and one of my very close friends too, i recovered with the help of my family and friends, but he isolated himself from all of us and went to the road of corruption and crime, it took us a lot to bring him back to normal and to rid him of his addictions.
as for me,
" प्यार करके भुलाना न आया हमे|
किसी के दिल को मनाना न आया हमे|
किसी से तड़पना तो सीख लिया|
पर किसी को तडपाना न आया हमे|"